Couples

Falling in love is one of lifes most passionate and exciting gifts- we feel connected, alive and the world seems to be more colourful.

Sometimes this fresh feeling fades after a while and our love relations or close friendships start being more complicated, the longer we are together and the deeper we go. Intimacy brings out deeply buried wounds- disapointments, old hurts and frustrations that come from unsatisfied needs in our childhood. Unconsciously we project these old wounds on our loved ones and friends. Without deeper understanding of the dynamics of love and intimacy we can easily get lost in hurts, conflicts, misunderstanding or even separate. With a deep understanding we can grow and overcome the drama and difficulties.

Our work is about coming closer to each other while giving space at the same time. We support you in discovering old patterns that cause conflict and disconnection. We create a basis for the relationship that doesn’t come out of fear or clinging, but out of love, dignity, aliveness and mutual respect.

One important step is to take full responsability for one’s own emotions and patterns, to get to know them to be able to connect as mature humans. Like that trust, honesty, intimacy, vulnerability and respect can become the foundation of a relationship. When we learn to feel our old wounds, our aliveness and passion comes back.

We have been couple for over 10 years, our marriage has been through deep love, connection and joy, as well as painful moments of loss, disconnection and pain. Our personal path of growth and learning serves us as a basis for working with couples and we view a partnership as never ending well of inspiration for personal growth and spiritual practice.

We assist couples or individuals in sessions as well as in our seminars.

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“A Relationship is a mirror in which I can see myself.”

Krishnamurti